I woke up this morning and thought it was Monday

Have you encountered this before?

I woke up this morning and I was dead sure that it was Monday and I had to get ready for work.

I was thinking thru the meetings I had for the day and what I needed to accomplish. And I did not want to get out of bed.

I was like...what happened this weekend? Where did my weekend go? How come I did not do this and that and that......

errr....it is not Monday...it is still Sunday!!!!!!

Hurray! Great...I went back to sleep...yawn.

I hope this happens tomorrow too..

I need to fix my IBS

Will explain that later....

Just want to remind myself I must change my eating habit next week. It must start and it all starts next week!

I must do it...will plan over the weekend.

Cheer me on...

The last time we touched was 3 months ago

My husband and I have been separated for 6 months now.

Ok not separated like separation leading to divorce kinda thing. It is more like separated by land and ocean. We are 24 hours apart by flight at different place and continent.

The last I saw him, the last we touched was 3 months ago.

He said he does not completely agree on why I am here but he says he understands.

But I know deep down, this is the last straw. We can't do it anymore. The separation is not doing any good.

I am giving it another 3 months......by then we must make a decision. Pray for an answer and open doors from God.

I slept with my bf's best friend and he is gay

My bf and I were refraining from sex, something that we agreed upon for our relationship.

We went to India or it looked like kinda a war torn Islamic country like what we usually see in the news - men carrying guns everywhere.

My bf went to work.

I was with my bf's best friend walking the streets. It was dangerous. He kept me safe.

We went back to the hotel. Someone tried to assasinate him but failed. It was a close call for both of us.

It happened. We did it, we had sex. Even though he is my bf's best friend and he is gay.


Wow! My dreams are getting more weird!

I wanna bitch about my boss

Can't help it! Just need to let out!

A boss who can't let go of the work

A boss who don't enable his/her people

A boss who wants does things before letting other know in order to take glory for him/herself

A boss who think seniority is more important than talent

A boss who feels threatened when you are better

A boss who's hairstyle is from a decade ago

A boss who does not sleep and works all the time and don't hesitate to tell the whole world about it.

You better agree with everthing that your boss says...then your life would be easy.

Banks are double faced pigs!!!

I had a revelation today. I finally see how banks actually treat their customer. If you are there to deposit monies, you get first priority and if you are there to withdraw, you will get last priority.


How did I know this? Here is my story for today....


I am not a big time business person, I don't have millions in the bank BUT I do not expect to be discriminated by the financial insitution called the bank!


Well, my banking transactions are pretty limited since I see banks as a means for savings. Therefore mostly ATMs to withdraw monies and when I enter the bank it is usually to deposit. Even now, I can deposit cheques and cash thru the machine so as much as possible, there is little time spent actually seeing a teller. Therefore, only when I deposit a FD, I will actually do a transaction via a teller.


Frankly, I must say that Maybank have improved their services, especially on time spent waiting TREMENDOUSLY. Years ago, one have to wait for 30 mins - 1 hour for any transaction but nowadays, it is amazingly fast. You tell the reception what you want to get done, she will advice if you need to fill up a form or not, and then you will be given a ticket number. At certain branches, and in particular this one that I usually go to...the tellers are upstairs. So amazingly, everytime I am given a number, I walk upstairs and nearly 99% of the time, before even I reach upstairs, my numbers would be called. Amazing right?!! Superb service right?!!


Until today! I really see the double face of Maybank!!


I decided to withdraw one of my FD today from Maybank. The reason simple - rumours that Maybank is not doing well and everyone is saying don't out all your eggs into the Maybank basket. Anyway, I decided to diversify and probably deposit some monies in other banks.


As usual, I went to the reception, and told them it is a FD transation. She asked me deposit or withdraw. I said withdraw, she gave me a ticket.


I rushed upstairs knowing that my number would be called since I am the next number on the ticket - 40xx


I reached upstairs and this time no "ting" for my number. So I waited for a while.


Strange...how come at least 3 tellers are not serving anybody but they did not "ting" for my number. Ok never mind, maybe for my transations, it is with the other tellers who are busy right now.


I stood there and waited. The tellers were still free, other tellers became available and yet they did not "ting" me.

"What's happening?"!!!!!

The "ting"...oh..it's not my number, they ting for 10xx. Then I saw a lady just managed to reach to the floor from downstairs and went straight to the teller.

They "ting" for at least another 7 new people who just walked in.

Can you imagine how I felt? I was fuming!!!! What the heck???!!!!

What the f*ck??!!! I was ready to walk to the counter and confront one of the tellers.

Then one of the manager from the back of the teller walked to the counter and "ting" my number.

I walked up and glared at him. He was a little taken aback.

I gave him my FD and a bank book and said withdraw and put into my savings account. He looked like he wanted to ask me a question but he could see I was fuming so he took my FD and asked me to wait while he process.

I told myself to stay calm and not to pick a fight. I will hold my tongue today!

Basically this is what happened. People who wants to withdraw monies is given the number starting 40xx. I suspect that the tellers are not supposed to "ting" these numbers but their supervisors are supposed to attend. Therefore, even though all tellers are free, my number was not "ting". The supervisor was supposed to question and ask why people want to withdraw. The guy who never asked me due to 2 things - I was Glaring at him, and also since I said withdraw into the savings books, he must think that's ok since it is still within the bank.

I am just pissed at this kind of treatment given!! Freaking discrimination!

No reason for me to deposit anymore monies to Maybank!

I am the second wife.

My Husband has another wife. Infact, I am the the second wife.

The three of us seemed really happy with the arrangement. One man, 2 wife...a happy family?

Then something happened, I went for a holiday and when I came back, things just were not the same. I've changed.

The three of us were watching TV on the bed. My hubby in the middle. The other woman on one side and me on another side. She had her leg on my hubby and hugging his body.

My hubby was holding my hands on my side.

Suddenly, I felt sad, Why am I in here? Why am I in this relationship? I need to leave, I need to run! I started crying.



Phew...it was just a dream.